In this blog post I’d like to share with you 3 positive mindset tips to transform your social life.
Being positive throughout the day is very essential to live an awesome life.
One thing that I want to point out first is a lot of people have a misunderstanding about being positive. Most of us think being positive is neglecting the negative things around us, and see life with just with rosy lenses.
I use to have this perception that all need to do is deny all the bad things happening to me or around me, and I’ll be positive.
I think that is very a dangerous mindset, because life is half part negative, and we need to accept it, and learn to deal with it. Learning to cope with it, and taking the lessons from every obstacle that went through and this is part of being positive.
In my FREE book Cultivate positive thinking, I talked about the realistic optimism, and what are the key points that you need to wrap your head around to be really positive and don’t compromise other aspect of your life.
So without being said, I’m going to share with you 3 positive mindset tips that will give you more positive energy to help others to feel better, and harness the power of positivity.
1.Honor people’s struggle
Understanding other people’s challenges and show empathy towards them is a key component to radiant positivity around you.
I believe that the more you show love, empathy, compassion to others the more those qualities become stronger in you.
Plus, when someone is going through hard times, and you show up to give them all the support that they need to get out from those moments, it actually reinforces your social connection with those people.
They will start to respect you and they’ll look up to you when they a problem that they don’t who deal with it.
2.Show interest to others
Part of being positive is also to show interest to other people.
Because when you take the effort to call them, or share with them something that they like, your kindness muscle becomes stronger, and this will evidently glow your positivity around you.
I think that within our nature we all want to give to others. It brings joy, kindness to our hearths that fuel our aliveness in this world.
3.Have a positive intention regardless of other’s energy vibes
That’s will definitively boost your positivity level and the quality of your relationships.
Sometimes we pick up on people’s energy and we start to act as they are. Doing this will ruin your emotions and thus your attitude towards others.
If someone acted in negative way, or he didn’t act as you assumed, understand that everyone has his own circumstances and defeats.
Learn how to maintain your positive expectation of other people and maintain it will drastically boost your positive energy, and you become less reactive.
Instead of acting as they did, don’t take it personally, have a little bit of understanding why they behaved that way, or you can give him an advice or do something that would break his pattern of thinking by asking a weird question for example.
When you’re in negative emotion state, if you’re in your head too much, those emotions become more intense and give them the power to destroy your connection with other people.
One thing you can do is breaking your pattern of thinking by doing something unusual or submerging yourself on a task. It’s something I learned from Tony Robbins through is book Awaken the giant within you, and it definitely works.
So when I feel down for example, what I do is put a big fake grin in my face, or I force myself to smile with people around me.
When you do that again and again, it becomes a habit, and you don’t need any push from yourself to do it.
These are 3 positive mindset tips to transform your social life for the better, and create a solid and deep connection with everyone around you.
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