In this video bellow, I’m going to talk about 3 big ideas on how to build self-confidence so you can attain your goals, your dreams, your aspirations, just feel good about yourself.
I’m a big believer that confidence is the ultimate virtue that will lead to richness in your life, and without it your self-esteem is going to be always ragged, and you’ll feel this sense of unworthiness which is the root of desperation, and despair.
So, let’s go over the 3 ideas that you can implement now to be confident in yourself:
3 Smart Ideas To Build Self-Confidence
1.Self-confidence starts with self-image
The main reason why most people aren’t confident with themselves is because there self-image is screwed up. Simple as that.
The first thing that you need to do is to reinvent how you see yourself as a person, meaning your identity.
The person who’s confident surely see himself in his hidden studio of his mind that he already achieved it.
Changing yourself self-image requires a bit of work, it’s not something is built in matter of days especially if you’re like me, 27 years of life was in complete despair, and self-sabotage.
One of the things you can do to twist around your self-image is visualization. Build beautiful images in your mind daily, by eliciting positive emotions attached to that image.
Or you can use the power of positive affirmations. Every single day, first thing in the morning, say something “I’m confident” or “I’m born to win”, like I do.
Further reading: Explore 100 positive affirmations for more ideas.
For about 1 year and 3 month I was doing consistently, every single day, I mediate for 5 minutes, then I say positive affirmations, with tender, engaging my body while I’m saying.
After doing that, slowly the way how you see yourself will start to change.
But, always there’s a but 😉 I found that it’s not enough. You need to back things up with results, and that’s what I’m going to talk about in the next point.
2.The loop of confidence
One mind blowing thing that noticed in my journey of building self-confidence, and rearranging the pieces together, it’s a self-fulfilling prophesy, you can’t stop, and that’s amazing, f***ing amazing.
But in order to make that works, you got to bring results on the table. There’s a saying that goes: confidence equals competence, and that’s true.
Here’s kind of how it works:
Step1: Tap into the right materials. Ideally self-help. Learn from other people, get mentors, immerse yourself in the pool of knowledge to gain skills, and competencies.
After putting in the work, and start getting results, what happens? Your confidence soar massively.
Step2: Once you start getting results, you self-esteem also increases, which will impact in a huge way your happiness.
Because lasting happiness, will only come from the experience of solving problems.
Step 3: Once you got that, it will take naturally to learn more skills, and gain new knowledge, and the wheel will keep rolling for the rest of your life.
It’s a fascinating dynamic will you get that down in your life. First I wasn’t aware of it, but once I start doing more thing, it hit me. That’s why I wanted to share with you.
3.Self-confidence is a long term process.
One key mindset that you need to embody on how to build self-confidence successful is to think in the long run.
Confidence is a end on its own. It’s a never ending process, and that’s the great part of life.
The imperfections that will all have t’s a blessing from God. Think about it for a moment…
If we were perfect, we won’t grow. Growth comes only from a place where in your path of seeking solutions, learning more about yourself, exploring your mind, which one of the vast and deep places that is still unexplored by most people.
I like to see myself as a project of life. We’re always kind of under construction.
So, these are my 3 big ideas on how to build self-confidence
Thank you for reading.
Founder Of Light Your Mind